Saturday, March 23, 2013
Indecisive much?
I have a bit to report on the dating/making new friends front, but I'm about to head to LA for a birthday so I don't have much time. Just though I'd blog about a little tidbit and get to that later. I log onto OkCupid, minding my own business, when who's status update should appear near the top of my activity page? Ben of course. But how could that be? He's listed as straight, he shouldn't appear in my results! Well, I guess he's listed as gay now. Bi to straight to gay in two months time. I blocked him.
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Welp, interesting turn of events. I hope you have fun in LA!! I'll be moving to CA in the near-ish future, so visit me! :-P
Wow. That certainly proves he has issues.
What he might be doing is changing his listed sexuality in order to chase certain people. If you trust his spoken word, he's bi. If so, and he sees a woman he likes, he changes to straight. A man, to gay. Either way, he's not very trustworthy.
Aek: Cool! Northern or Southern?
TwoLives: Yes. Issues indeed. I don't think that's what he's doing though. Chasing certain people suggests he knows what he wants and is simply changing his label to get it. I think he's waffling, sort of like I've done with careers in the past (difference is, real people's feelings are on the line here). Dude's a ticking time bomb when it comes to future relationships. He needs to get his head straight first.
@SCalRF: Central . . . lol.
You did the right thing blocking him. Altho you are intensely curious about what Ben is up to, seeing his dating antics is just going to reinforce a lot of simmering issues, questions and doubts. I'm not even going to get into his shifting orientation -- that's something he has to deal with.
By "ignoring" him, you take away his power to influence your life in negative ways.
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